So, it has been a long time since Emily or I have had (or taken) the time to post on this Blog... "Life" has gotten continually crazier and prioritizing for time "on the web" has fallen by the wayside - much the way of the DoDo Bird, the Dinosaurs, and the time I used to spend on the Golf Course! 😄 But, we continue to find ourselves blessed beyond measure, even if the challenges and difficulties of life seem to carry a bigger (or louder) stick, at times. I looks like our most recent posts are from 2012. So, I'll take few short words to try to catch us up since that time...
Emily and I have suffered indescribable losses since 2012. In 2014, we experienced the highs and lows associated with a pregnancy that terminates for no reason - not once, but twice. Then, in 2015, it happened again! The doctors (OB, GP, etc.) all said it was just "luck" and that there was no medical "cause". You would think that such news would be encouraging, but it really just leaves you holding a huge question mark! It's a very stinging and unfair situation to live through.
Colby is doing GREAT! Following an extended stay at the NICU, Jason & Brie have seen Colby grow and develop in amazing ways (compared to the outlook and anticipation that existed immediately after his birth)! He still faces *many* challenges in life, to be sure, but the fact that he's still with us is amazing, in and of itself!
Our friends Will and Jennifer adopted a baby girl (Payson) from Armenia in 2011 and had another baby girl (Libby) in 2015. We continue to enjoy life with them, as we have children roughly same age and we continue our ministry together through the Prattville YMCA Leaders' Club and our annual trips to the YMCA Blue Ridge Assembly in Black Mountain, NC, for the YMCA Christian Values Conference.
Our friends Bradley & Lindy continue to be the friends that we probably see the most often, as Lindy and Emily help each other carpool the kids after school and Bradley and I continue to partner together through our business, BBS. Our kids (five total) are in the same schools and participate in a lot of the same extra-curricular activities. They have been close since they were born, and they all consider each other to be brothers and sisters together. We are SO blessed to have this family in our life, and we could never describe just how interwoven they have become in the fabric of our family.
My sister, Shari, has had two baby boys (Henry in 2012 and Silas in 2015) and is currently pregnant with a third (James). Please keep Shari and her family in your thoughts and prayers, as she is currently in her 4th week in the hospital for bed rest and constant monitoring, as her cervix has been especially challenging this time around, putting her at high risk for a early labor & delivery.
My other sisters, the Nurse Practitioners, currently seem to be keeping their heads down. ...or maybe not...
Mary Beth is still in the greater Jackson, MS area, where she is practicing and she is also coaching a swim team and teaching swim lessons. Her girls (Lane - 15 and Lorilee - 12) are extremely active in sports and other activities, while also maintaining the highest of marks in school.
Kristen graduated with her Masters and jumped into the NP world head-first. Additionally, she brought "a boy" to Christmas this year, so that was FUN! 😃
Emily's sister, Katie, is still living the high life down in South Alabama. We get to see her whenever make our way down to the beach, and when she comes "home" to visit. We don't get to see ANY of our sisters NEARLY enough! 😟😞
Both sets of parents are still doing what they do. "Nana & Popsie" are up in Kentucky, trying to weather the C-O-L-D Winters so that they can also enjoy (somewhat) less extreme Summers. "Grammy & Gramps" are still hanging out in Montgomery so we get to see them more often, and they are able to come cheer on the kids for sports - gymnastics meets, soccer matches, basketball games, etc. Everybody seems to be doing pretty well, overall, though!
ANYWAY, that's something of a QUICK update on these past 5-6 years... I'll post again soon with a more complete message - some observation about the world; a challenge that we are facing; or [GULP] a discussion of the above-referenced traumas that Emily and I suffered back in 2014-2015. I've had a mind to write, lately, and this is the best vehicle I can think of to use. Nothing will be "publish-worthy;" it's just me trying to put some thoughts down on paper. Check back and keep checking, if you just don't have much else to do with your time! 😁
Monday, February 19, 2018
Thursday, August 2, 2012
Prayer Request!
For anyone who follows or reads our blog, I would like to request that you please pray for our dear friends, the Smith Family. Their son, Colby, is currently in the NICU at a local hospital, fighting for his life. He was born at only 24 weeks into the pregnancy, so there are obvious physical and developmental concerns. Please read more about Colby's amazing little life at http://ourcolby.blogspot.com. I appreciate our family, friends, and other bloggers supporting this family in prayer and love!!!
Thursday, May 10, 2012
Photo Dump
This post will be just a random photo dump. These are in no particular order and for all the facebook peeps, you have probably seen these, but I wanted to capture them on my blog too!
These pictures were taken within the past few months.
Peanut Butter and Jelly Hair!
Laundry Basket Time!
After Savannah's 1st Dentist Appointment!
I have to brag for a sec. She did WONDERFUL and didn't even cry! No cavaties, either! Whoohoo!
1st Night at Gymnastics!
This boy is SO BUSY and SERIOUS it's hard to get a good picture of him smiling! I love this!
Savannah's Silly Hat I made for her Awana Club meeting one night.
These pictures were taken within the past few months.
I have to brag for a sec. She did WONDERFUL and didn't even cry! No cavaties, either! Whoohoo!
Monday, May 7, 2012
Monday...At Its Worst!
WARNING: I'm sharing about my horrible morning, reader discretion is advised.
Wow! It's 9:30 Monday morning. I've been up since 5AM and all I can think to do is blog about what I hope will not turn into the worst day ever.
Yesterday's church sermon was titled: Jesus, The Greatest Teacher. We are currently in a series about learning who Jesus is. It's pretty awesome. Anyway, after the service, I was convicted more than ever, that I needed to get up early in the mornings to have much needed quiet time. I have utterly failed at having any quiet time recently and boy does it show! I have often said I would get up early to have quiet time, but because my son has always been an early riser, that would mean I would have to get up no later than 5AM. For the longest time, I used that as an excuse. It's sad really. I am basically blaming my son for my lack of quiet time! The reality is, it's not his fault, but mine! So, with this in mind, I told myself, sacrificing an extra hour of sleep for an extra hour of time with God is so worth it! He longs me and I long for Him!
Now,here comes this morning, earlier than I would like it to. My sweet husband woke me up (as I asked him to) and I slowly but surely roll out of bed. Looking forward to a much needed cup of coffee, I get it ready and head back to our room. As I set my coffee down to grab my bible and journal, apparently still half asleep, I manage to bump my coffee cup so that it proceeds to flip over and onto the floor. There goes a FULL cup of fresh hot coffee! To make matters worse, our room, of course is far from neat and so the coffee is not only on the floor, but on clothes, mail, and some of Savannah's books. (NOTE: our room will be spotless by the end of the day)
As I start towards the kitchen to get 2 rolls of paper towels, thinking, "what a way to start a morning!", I notice a mess in the corner of our room. I noticed it, because it was COVERING my cute, brown, sparkly heals. (NOTE: our room will be spotless by the end of the day) What could this mess be? None other than Doggie Diarrhea! As I back up in horror (yes, it was that messy) I step in something cold and wet. Looking down reluctanly, it's doggie throw up, fresh with regurgitated dog food and grass! Can I please wake up from this nightmare!!!? Not yet. I don't know what it was, but something told me to look over towards the dogs bed, where they sleep on the floor. Oh yes, more doggy throw up! (I got lucky though, it was only on their bed, which the cover can be taken off and washed)
So there I stood, in complete dismay, that Monday morning had just slapped me across the face. Honestly, my first few thoughts were, "Really God? I actually make an effort to get up and spend time with you and this is what happens?"
Fast forwarding... Aric came home from exercising... I was still working on trying to get the diarrhea out of the carpet...we both are obviously not very happy...the stench is so bad, we decide, he HAS to go buy a carpet shampooer. Thankfully the kids haven't woken up yet, so until Aric gets back from the store, I decide I will try and squeeze in some quiet time. (praying that the kids will sleep just a little longer so I can at least get 15 minutes in) Because we are learning about who Jesus is in church, I picked a bible reading plan that helps you to understand who Jesus really is. It starts in the gospel of Luke. The reading for today was Chapter 1 verses 1-38. As I am trying to understand the words I am reading, I keep getting side tracked to how horrible this morning was going. I had already decided there was NO WAY I was going to have a good day. Just when I thought that, I read this, "For nothing is impossible with God." Luke 1:37
Wow....I just sat there for a minute. I prayed and prayed and thanked God for my day. As I was praying, another thing hit me like a ton of bricks. I've been sad lately, as you read in my previous post, about my grandfather. My whole extended family does not have a relationship with Christ (that I know of) and I was beginning to think that they may never know the Truth. "For nothing is impossible with God." "For nothing is impossible with God." There is hope! There is hope that my day will not be as bad as I think it will be. There is hope that with God's help, the lost can be found again! With God, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE!!!
Here is to a Monday that tried to chew me up, spit me out and leave me drowning in misery because of some spilled coffee and doggie messes. God is bigger and stronger and created this day! I surrender this day to Him, focusing on the many blessings that sometimes get forgotten because of my own self pity.
God Bless!
Emily
Wow! It's 9:30 Monday morning. I've been up since 5AM and all I can think to do is blog about what I hope will not turn into the worst day ever.
Yesterday's church sermon was titled: Jesus, The Greatest Teacher. We are currently in a series about learning who Jesus is. It's pretty awesome. Anyway, after the service, I was convicted more than ever, that I needed to get up early in the mornings to have much needed quiet time. I have utterly failed at having any quiet time recently and boy does it show! I have often said I would get up early to have quiet time, but because my son has always been an early riser, that would mean I would have to get up no later than 5AM. For the longest time, I used that as an excuse. It's sad really. I am basically blaming my son for my lack of quiet time! The reality is, it's not his fault, but mine! So, with this in mind, I told myself, sacrificing an extra hour of sleep for an extra hour of time with God is so worth it! He longs me and I long for Him!
Now,here comes this morning, earlier than I would like it to. My sweet husband woke me up (as I asked him to) and I slowly but surely roll out of bed. Looking forward to a much needed cup of coffee, I get it ready and head back to our room. As I set my coffee down to grab my bible and journal, apparently still half asleep, I manage to bump my coffee cup so that it proceeds to flip over and onto the floor. There goes a FULL cup of fresh hot coffee! To make matters worse, our room, of course is far from neat and so the coffee is not only on the floor, but on clothes, mail, and some of Savannah's books. (NOTE: our room will be spotless by the end of the day)
As I start towards the kitchen to get 2 rolls of paper towels, thinking, "what a way to start a morning!", I notice a mess in the corner of our room. I noticed it, because it was COVERING my cute, brown, sparkly heals. (NOTE: our room will be spotless by the end of the day) What could this mess be? None other than Doggie Diarrhea! As I back up in horror (yes, it was that messy) I step in something cold and wet. Looking down reluctanly, it's doggie throw up, fresh with regurgitated dog food and grass! Can I please wake up from this nightmare!!!? Not yet. I don't know what it was, but something told me to look over towards the dogs bed, where they sleep on the floor. Oh yes, more doggy throw up! (I got lucky though, it was only on their bed, which the cover can be taken off and washed)
So there I stood, in complete dismay, that Monday morning had just slapped me across the face. Honestly, my first few thoughts were, "Really God? I actually make an effort to get up and spend time with you and this is what happens?"
Fast forwarding... Aric came home from exercising... I was still working on trying to get the diarrhea out of the carpet...we both are obviously not very happy...the stench is so bad, we decide, he HAS to go buy a carpet shampooer. Thankfully the kids haven't woken up yet, so until Aric gets back from the store, I decide I will try and squeeze in some quiet time. (praying that the kids will sleep just a little longer so I can at least get 15 minutes in) Because we are learning about who Jesus is in church, I picked a bible reading plan that helps you to understand who Jesus really is. It starts in the gospel of Luke. The reading for today was Chapter 1 verses 1-38. As I am trying to understand the words I am reading, I keep getting side tracked to how horrible this morning was going. I had already decided there was NO WAY I was going to have a good day. Just when I thought that, I read this, "For nothing is impossible with God." Luke 1:37
Wow....I just sat there for a minute. I prayed and prayed and thanked God for my day. As I was praying, another thing hit me like a ton of bricks. I've been sad lately, as you read in my previous post, about my grandfather. My whole extended family does not have a relationship with Christ (that I know of) and I was beginning to think that they may never know the Truth. "For nothing is impossible with God." "For nothing is impossible with God." There is hope! There is hope that my day will not be as bad as I think it will be. There is hope that with God's help, the lost can be found again! With God, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE!!!
Here is to a Monday that tried to chew me up, spit me out and leave me drowning in misery because of some spilled coffee and doggie messes. God is bigger and stronger and created this day! I surrender this day to Him, focusing on the many blessings that sometimes get forgotten because of my own self pity.
God Bless!
Emily
Friday, May 4, 2012
Hanging In There
When most people ask me these days how I am doing, my response is, "I'm hanging in there."
While it sounds kind of boring and blah, it's the truth! Let me enlighten you a bit.
Since the last blog post, I finished my short weight loss little experiment with the Y. I lost 13 pounds total and 5 inches all around. While I was pleased with the results, my poor self confidence monster, reared its ugly head and told me I can do better. I am still continuing to exercise, however, now more than ever, I am making exercising a priority, NO EXCUSES! (I have since lost 4 more pounds since the end of March...slow and steady, right?)
Aric has even begun working out with a buddy of his. He gets up at 445 AM (no typo there) and I am really proud of him becuase he does this 3 days a week!
Last blog post, I mentioned Thomas and his eating issues. We decided not to go to the feeding clinic for Thomas. He has shown improvement in his eating habits and we truly felt that with those improvements, he didn't need a special feeding plan. He still has his moments that I let stress me out way too much but, that is something I am working on. :)
Oh, before I forget, the picture of all of us above, was a combined one year and 3 year session for the kids, as well as family photos for us. It was taken last fall and almost turned into a disaster session. Notice how serious our children look? We couldn't get them to smile for anything. It had been way too long since any professional photos had been taken so I was NOT rescheduling.
Moving right along...some very sad news to share, I have recently lost my grandfather. It was expected but it was still very sad because I don't know his relationship with the Lord. Thankfully, we were able to visit him recently when he took a turn for the worst. He slept the whole time but I prayed. Aric and I prayed together and then I prayed some more. This type of sadness that I feel is another level of sad that I have never experienced before. I have always heard of people passing away and loved ones didn't know if they were a believer or not. Didn't matter much because it didn't affect me (honestly.) I have also always heard in church, especially since I became a Christian in 2006, that salvation, through Christ Jesus, is the only way into heaven. I firmly believe that still today, however, since I know of this truth, I feel like I have utterly failed in spreading this truth to everyone and anyone I know. I have realized I can't beat myself up and I can only continue to pray that he is in heaven and I will see him again one day. For anyone reading this, don't ever give up hope and know that Jesus is here. He is alive and ready to forgive our sins. He is ready for a relationship and loves you more than you can possibly fathom. Jesus has changed my life and while I still mess up, His mercies are new every day. There is hope for us, a place where we can stand, someone who understands more than anyone we know...Jesus.
Shifting gears to some exciting news to share. Our mission trip to Armenia is right around the corner! We leave May 26 and come back on June 3. Yes, we are taking the kids and let me just say, I'm so very excited! I've been reading this book by David Platt called "Radical". ANYONE and EVERYONE should read this book. It will definitely get you pumped up about spreading the gospel.
I was a little nervous about the travel part of our trip but I feel that God has given me this peace that only He can give. It's really amazing! I can't wait for Savannah to interact with people half way across the world. Thomas too! This trip could not have come at a better time. After the passing of my grandfather, now more than ever, I feel like God has called our family to be doing this. I know that. We are taking a small group of teens we minsiter to through the Prattville YMCA. We have prepared for months and prayed for a long time about this. While in Armenia, we will be working in one of the poorest villages in the country. This will be my fist international mission trip. I have been praying diligently that God will be glorified and these Armenians we encounter will be forever changed when they hear that the love of Jesus.
Savannah and Thomas' "school" year is about over. This summer I am keeping them out of MDO so hopefully, I won't go too crazy! I plan on lots of days at the park and pool. Boy am I thankful we can walk to and from the YMCA pool in no time! They will start at First UMC in the fall going 3 days a week!
Fun times are ahead with those two kiddos. Savannah is doing just about everything by herself. Bathroom, brushing teeth, getting dressed and undressed, she even will get in and out of the bathtub by herself! (not my favorite thing that she does)
Thomas adores is older sister. He watches her every move and sometimes even picks on her. ( we are working on the sharing and being gentle behavior now)He is a busy 20 month old who is all boy.
I apologize if this post is so boring but I figured it was time for some updates. As for the 'Hanging in There' title, for awhile, I was feeling like I was doing just that. Truth is, I have some pretty crazy days with a 3 year old and almost 2 year old, but God has shown me that I am SO MUCH MORE than just here. His plan for me and our family is wonderful and serving Him is something that is far from mediocre.
One last thing before I leave you, it's already May and for me that means it's my birthday month! I always love birthdays. They are just fun! I will be 29 years old! MY last year in my 20's! Scary. Exciting.Looking forward!
I hope you all have a great, fun, weekend. Don't forget to eat some mexican grub on Saturday and maybe wear a big hat for the Derby.
God Bless!
Emily
"Instead, ou must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your Christian hope, always be ready to explain it.
1 Peter 3:15
While it sounds kind of boring and blah, it's the truth! Let me enlighten you a bit.
Since the last blog post, I finished my short weight loss little experiment with the Y. I lost 13 pounds total and 5 inches all around. While I was pleased with the results, my poor self confidence monster, reared its ugly head and told me I can do better. I am still continuing to exercise, however, now more than ever, I am making exercising a priority, NO EXCUSES! (I have since lost 4 more pounds since the end of March...slow and steady, right?)
Aric has even begun working out with a buddy of his. He gets up at 445 AM (no typo there) and I am really proud of him becuase he does this 3 days a week!
Last blog post, I mentioned Thomas and his eating issues. We decided not to go to the feeding clinic for Thomas. He has shown improvement in his eating habits and we truly felt that with those improvements, he didn't need a special feeding plan. He still has his moments that I let stress me out way too much but, that is something I am working on. :)
Oh, before I forget, the picture of all of us above, was a combined one year and 3 year session for the kids, as well as family photos for us. It was taken last fall and almost turned into a disaster session. Notice how serious our children look? We couldn't get them to smile for anything. It had been way too long since any professional photos had been taken so I was NOT rescheduling.
Moving right along...some very sad news to share, I have recently lost my grandfather. It was expected but it was still very sad because I don't know his relationship with the Lord. Thankfully, we were able to visit him recently when he took a turn for the worst. He slept the whole time but I prayed. Aric and I prayed together and then I prayed some more. This type of sadness that I feel is another level of sad that I have never experienced before. I have always heard of people passing away and loved ones didn't know if they were a believer or not. Didn't matter much because it didn't affect me (honestly.) I have also always heard in church, especially since I became a Christian in 2006, that salvation, through Christ Jesus, is the only way into heaven. I firmly believe that still today, however, since I know of this truth, I feel like I have utterly failed in spreading this truth to everyone and anyone I know. I have realized I can't beat myself up and I can only continue to pray that he is in heaven and I will see him again one day. For anyone reading this, don't ever give up hope and know that Jesus is here. He is alive and ready to forgive our sins. He is ready for a relationship and loves you more than you can possibly fathom. Jesus has changed my life and while I still mess up, His mercies are new every day. There is hope for us, a place where we can stand, someone who understands more than anyone we know...Jesus.
Shifting gears to some exciting news to share. Our mission trip to Armenia is right around the corner! We leave May 26 and come back on June 3. Yes, we are taking the kids and let me just say, I'm so very excited! I've been reading this book by David Platt called "Radical". ANYONE and EVERYONE should read this book. It will definitely get you pumped up about spreading the gospel.
I was a little nervous about the travel part of our trip but I feel that God has given me this peace that only He can give. It's really amazing! I can't wait for Savannah to interact with people half way across the world. Thomas too! This trip could not have come at a better time. After the passing of my grandfather, now more than ever, I feel like God has called our family to be doing this. I know that. We are taking a small group of teens we minsiter to through the Prattville YMCA. We have prepared for months and prayed for a long time about this. While in Armenia, we will be working in one of the poorest villages in the country. This will be my fist international mission trip. I have been praying diligently that God will be glorified and these Armenians we encounter will be forever changed when they hear that the love of Jesus.
Savannah and Thomas' "school" year is about over. This summer I am keeping them out of MDO so hopefully, I won't go too crazy! I plan on lots of days at the park and pool. Boy am I thankful we can walk to and from the YMCA pool in no time! They will start at First UMC in the fall going 3 days a week!
Fun times are ahead with those two kiddos. Savannah is doing just about everything by herself. Bathroom, brushing teeth, getting dressed and undressed, she even will get in and out of the bathtub by herself! (not my favorite thing that she does)
Thomas adores is older sister. He watches her every move and sometimes even picks on her. ( we are working on the sharing and being gentle behavior now)He is a busy 20 month old who is all boy.
I apologize if this post is so boring but I figured it was time for some updates. As for the 'Hanging in There' title, for awhile, I was feeling like I was doing just that. Truth is, I have some pretty crazy days with a 3 year old and almost 2 year old, but God has shown me that I am SO MUCH MORE than just here. His plan for me and our family is wonderful and serving Him is something that is far from mediocre.
One last thing before I leave you, it's already May and for me that means it's my birthday month! I always love birthdays. They are just fun! I will be 29 years old! MY last year in my 20's! Scary. Exciting.Looking forward!
I hope you all have a great, fun, weekend. Don't forget to eat some mexican grub on Saturday and maybe wear a big hat for the Derby.
God Bless!
Emily
"Instead, ou must worship Christ as Lord of your life. And if someone asks about your Christian hope, always be ready to explain it.
1 Peter 3:15
Thursday, March 8, 2012
18 Months and Eating
Thomas turned 18 months old on the third of this month! He is one busy, needy, vibrant little boy. Him and his sister play well
As bad as I want to compare Thomas with Savannah at this age, I will just explain how this sweet boy is doing. For starters, he likes to take things apart. We have an old cell phone we have given him to play with. We have downloaded baby games for him and he enjoys those for about a minute. After that, it is more fun trying to take the phone apart. If he can't take the phone apart, he will try and figure something else to take apart. Future engineer? Maybe?
When he is not trying to figure things out, he loves to be held. I have always tried to encourage my children to play on their own but, since he has been in this world, Thomas just wants to be held. I enjoy it most of the time because he is a great little cuddler, but it becomes very difficult when you are trying to watch your other child and/or get things done. I think Thomas is finally realizing he is just fine when he is not being held....whew! He still likes to cuddle but mainly when he is sleepy.
Thomas's vocabulary is getting better but limited to a handful of words. "Paci", "mama", "daddy", "please", "bye-bye", and "night-night". He has sort of started to say "milk". He may not say a lot but, boy oh boy, does he understand a lot. All I have to say is "breakfast" in the morning and he will run straight to the kitchen and either go to the pantry or the fridge. Sometimes, he will bypass that and go straight for the high chair! Also, at night time, if he is sleepy enough, we can say, "Thomas, are you ready to go to bed?" He will then proceed to go straight into his room and to his crib! Yep, this boy knows!
Thomas had his 18 month check up yesterday. I was a little nervous because Thomas has never been the best eater. His weight is never on the chart. (his height is, but even that progresses at a slow pace) Backing up for a minute, at his 15 month check up, his weight was 18 pounds. At his 18 month check up, he was 18 pounds and he had only grown 1/4 of an inch. We have explained to the doctor that he will eat but he just doesn't eat a lot. Dinner has been our biggest struggle. There are nights that we put him to bed and he hasn't eaten. I know it sounds weird but he will sleep through the night and in the morning he wakes up normal. He doesn't appear to be starving at any given time.
We have tried almost everything we can think of to get him to eat. I have even cut back on snacking. (even though I never let him have a lot of snacks in the first place) The doctor recommended a feeding clinic in Montgomery. Aric and I had never heard of such a thing but it supposed to be very helpful for children who struggle with eating. Basically, you make an appointment for your child and a nutritionist will observe your child eating. Once they can see how your child is eating, they taylor a specific plan for your child to help encourage better eating habits. We have no idea if this will even work but we decided to go for it because we figured it would be worth a shot.
His poor eating has been a cause of stress for me. It really shoudln't because, as I mentioned earlier, he sleeps fine through the night. He has A LOT of energy during the day and he is very strong! (he's skinny, but he's strong) But I guess, as a parent, seeing your child not eat, is never a fun thing to go through. Especially at this yound and delicate age when they are supposed to be growing and developing.
Thankfully, Aric has been a huge support. He doesn't stress like I do, so I have REALLY been able to lean on him for encouragement.
Our sweet boy is such a huge blessing and other than this eating issue, he is a healthy 18 month old. Everyday I give thanks to God for giving us to 2 healthy children.
I will be sure to update on how this feeding clinic goes as soon as I can.
Now, since it is alreay THURSDAY!! and I have lots of laundry to do, I better get to it.
Have a splendid day!
God Bless,
Emily
As bad as I want to compare Thomas with Savannah at this age, I will just explain how this sweet boy is doing. For starters, he likes to take things apart. We have an old cell phone we have given him to play with. We have downloaded baby games for him and he enjoys those for about a minute. After that, it is more fun trying to take the phone apart. If he can't take the phone apart, he will try and figure something else to take apart. Future engineer? Maybe?
When he is not trying to figure things out, he loves to be held. I have always tried to encourage my children to play on their own but, since he has been in this world, Thomas just wants to be held. I enjoy it most of the time because he is a great little cuddler, but it becomes very difficult when you are trying to watch your other child and/or get things done. I think Thomas is finally realizing he is just fine when he is not being held....whew! He still likes to cuddle but mainly when he is sleepy.
Thomas's vocabulary is getting better but limited to a handful of words. "Paci", "mama", "daddy", "please", "bye-bye", and "night-night". He has sort of started to say "milk". He may not say a lot but, boy oh boy, does he understand a lot. All I have to say is "breakfast" in the morning and he will run straight to the kitchen and either go to the pantry or the fridge. Sometimes, he will bypass that and go straight for the high chair! Also, at night time, if he is sleepy enough, we can say, "Thomas, are you ready to go to bed?" He will then proceed to go straight into his room and to his crib! Yep, this boy knows!
Thomas had his 18 month check up yesterday. I was a little nervous because Thomas has never been the best eater. His weight is never on the chart. (his height is, but even that progresses at a slow pace) Backing up for a minute, at his 15 month check up, his weight was 18 pounds. At his 18 month check up, he was 18 pounds and he had only grown 1/4 of an inch. We have explained to the doctor that he will eat but he just doesn't eat a lot. Dinner has been our biggest struggle. There are nights that we put him to bed and he hasn't eaten. I know it sounds weird but he will sleep through the night and in the morning he wakes up normal. He doesn't appear to be starving at any given time.
We have tried almost everything we can think of to get him to eat. I have even cut back on snacking. (even though I never let him have a lot of snacks in the first place) The doctor recommended a feeding clinic in Montgomery. Aric and I had never heard of such a thing but it supposed to be very helpful for children who struggle with eating. Basically, you make an appointment for your child and a nutritionist will observe your child eating. Once they can see how your child is eating, they taylor a specific plan for your child to help encourage better eating habits. We have no idea if this will even work but we decided to go for it because we figured it would be worth a shot.
His poor eating has been a cause of stress for me. It really shoudln't because, as I mentioned earlier, he sleeps fine through the night. He has A LOT of energy during the day and he is very strong! (he's skinny, but he's strong) But I guess, as a parent, seeing your child not eat, is never a fun thing to go through. Especially at this yound and delicate age when they are supposed to be growing and developing.
Thankfully, Aric has been a huge support. He doesn't stress like I do, so I have REALLY been able to lean on him for encouragement.
Our sweet boy is such a huge blessing and other than this eating issue, he is a healthy 18 month old. Everyday I give thanks to God for giving us to 2 healthy children.
I will be sure to update on how this feeding clinic goes as soon as I can.
Now, since it is alreay THURSDAY!! and I have lots of laundry to do, I better get to it.
Have a splendid day!
God Bless,
Emily
Wednesday, March 7, 2012
Pound for Pound..Losing it a little at a time
Starting Mid-January,I signed up for a program the Prattville YMCA was offering called, Inch-a-Weigh. It is 12 weeks long and was just what I needed to get on the weight loss wagon. I've never done Weight Watchers but if I had to guess, this program would be similar. The Y gives you a food and exercise journal that you are to record all your exercises and meals every day. In the beginning, you are weighed initially and all of your measurements are taken. Then, once a week, you weigh in (you pick the day and time), it is recorded by a staff member and you go on about your day; hopefully to exercise! Even though I knew doing this by myself would be challenging, I was totally up for it!
I began working out everyday only taking a break on Saturdays, sometimes Sunday. To mix things up a bit, I keep variety in my workouts. For example, on Tuesday and Thursdays, the Y offers this awesome class called Cardio and Tone. It is just as it sounds. I sweat A LOT in this class and love it! On the other days, I swap it up between, elliptical workouts, treadmill runs, outdoor runs. I also make sure to lift some free weights in between all the cardio. Two 5lb weights is all I need to get those arms burning! :)
As for my diet, I am still eating what I would normally eat but carefully watching my portion sizes. I have also cut out sodas which means nothing but water, baby! Going out to eat has been a little different. Normally, I would splurge and get whatever I wanted just because we were at a restaurant but, not any more. I try and go for the healthier options like grilled chicken and veggies. If I get a salad, I opt for the lighter dressing (any type of vinagrette or fat free option). My weakness is sweets. I have a HUGE sweet tooth! The solution: I don't buy sweets! Instead, I buy bananas or apples and fat free yogurt. Not only is it healthier and guilt-free, it completely satisfies my sweet tooth.
When I first started Inch-a-Weigh, my weight was 143.6. Today at my weigh-in, it was 137.1! So far, I have been losing about a pound a week. There has only been one week that I didn't lose anything. (but I didn't gain, either)The staff at the Y have been great and very encouraging. They have been able to review my food and exercise journal to make sure I am on the right track with my weight loss. So far so good, except for my snacking. Apparently, I am not snacking enough and need to incorporate more healthy snacks into my diet. That has been a challenge but it is being worked on. (fruit and yogurt!)
Losing about a pound a week is about right for healthy weight loss. (or so I have been told) One pound a week doesn't sound like a lot but I have REALLY been able to tell a difference!
I want to encourage any one out there reading this that YOU CAN DO IT! I really feel like exercising has been the key factor. Dieting doesn't hurt but if you can exercise, even if it's a little bit every day, you will see those pounds drop! Not only are my clothes fitting better and in some cases getting too big but I feel A LOT stronger. I can do crunches and girl push-ups without feeling like I am going to fall out. I can run for 2 miles without feeling like I'm going to die. I can lift weights and not feel like I am going to drop them on my toes.
My main source of encouragement has been myself. I just got SO TIRED of the way I looked and felt. I was fed up and had to do something about it. When I first started this and would have sore muscles for days, I just pushed through it, because I would rather have sore muscles than fat around my belly.
I still have a lot work to do and more pounds to drop, to get to a weight I am comfortable with. I am taking it one day at a time and staying positive. The week, I mentioned earlier that I didn't lose anything, I kept going and if anything pushed even harder!
Once I get to my goal weight, I plan on continuing to exercise and watching my portions. A healthy lifestyle cannot be built overnight, but it can be done! As my husband always tells me, "Rome wasn't built in a day!" How true that is!!
Have a great evening and God Bless!
Emily
I began working out everyday only taking a break on Saturdays, sometimes Sunday. To mix things up a bit, I keep variety in my workouts. For example, on Tuesday and Thursdays, the Y offers this awesome class called Cardio and Tone. It is just as it sounds. I sweat A LOT in this class and love it! On the other days, I swap it up between, elliptical workouts, treadmill runs, outdoor runs. I also make sure to lift some free weights in between all the cardio. Two 5lb weights is all I need to get those arms burning! :)
As for my diet, I am still eating what I would normally eat but carefully watching my portion sizes. I have also cut out sodas which means nothing but water, baby! Going out to eat has been a little different. Normally, I would splurge and get whatever I wanted just because we were at a restaurant but, not any more. I try and go for the healthier options like grilled chicken and veggies. If I get a salad, I opt for the lighter dressing (any type of vinagrette or fat free option). My weakness is sweets. I have a HUGE sweet tooth! The solution: I don't buy sweets! Instead, I buy bananas or apples and fat free yogurt. Not only is it healthier and guilt-free, it completely satisfies my sweet tooth.
When I first started Inch-a-Weigh, my weight was 143.6. Today at my weigh-in, it was 137.1! So far, I have been losing about a pound a week. There has only been one week that I didn't lose anything. (but I didn't gain, either)The staff at the Y have been great and very encouraging. They have been able to review my food and exercise journal to make sure I am on the right track with my weight loss. So far so good, except for my snacking. Apparently, I am not snacking enough and need to incorporate more healthy snacks into my diet. That has been a challenge but it is being worked on. (fruit and yogurt!)
Losing about a pound a week is about right for healthy weight loss. (or so I have been told) One pound a week doesn't sound like a lot but I have REALLY been able to tell a difference!
I want to encourage any one out there reading this that YOU CAN DO IT! I really feel like exercising has been the key factor. Dieting doesn't hurt but if you can exercise, even if it's a little bit every day, you will see those pounds drop! Not only are my clothes fitting better and in some cases getting too big but I feel A LOT stronger. I can do crunches and girl push-ups without feeling like I am going to fall out. I can run for 2 miles without feeling like I'm going to die. I can lift weights and not feel like I am going to drop them on my toes.
My main source of encouragement has been myself. I just got SO TIRED of the way I looked and felt. I was fed up and had to do something about it. When I first started this and would have sore muscles for days, I just pushed through it, because I would rather have sore muscles than fat around my belly.
I still have a lot work to do and more pounds to drop, to get to a weight I am comfortable with. I am taking it one day at a time and staying positive. The week, I mentioned earlier that I didn't lose anything, I kept going and if anything pushed even harder!
Once I get to my goal weight, I plan on continuing to exercise and watching my portions. A healthy lifestyle cannot be built overnight, but it can be done! As my husband always tells me, "Rome wasn't built in a day!" How true that is!!
Have a great evening and God Bless!
Emily
Monday, March 5, 2012
Getting Settled In
Allright you faithful blog readers, February was a busy month! This post will be quite lengthy...hang in there!
Since my last post in January, I mentioned that I needed to decorare our new home. (WELL,I still have yet to decorate our new home. :( I know, I know, you're probably thinking, what in the world does she do in all of her spare time? Oh, you'd be surprised! I have been looking at stuff (online and in stores) trying to get ideas, chasing two very busy children, cleaning, cooking, traveling, sleeping, exercising.....I always thought once we moved in I would immediately want to/have to decorate and get everything just right. Well, I am far from having that Martha Stewart touch and quite frankly, I want to take my time. First of all, decorating costs money and if I am going to be spending money (even if it is gift cards to East Chase!) I want to make sure I get what we like and what suits our home. Second, Aric and I have very different tastes, so for me to just go out and buy stuff for the house I like, would be a very bad idea. Finally, between those two previousexcuses, reasons, we are ok with having a simple home for now. By the way, we are thouroughly enjoying Prattville!
Savannah started her first ever gymnastics class at the Prattville YMCA. She already participates in the Big Green Bus at her school once a week, so thankfully, she already had some "experience" with gym stuff. The first day of class, she went right over and sat in the circle with the other children for roll call. She didn't even look back! I may have shed a tear. She is becoming so independent and excited to do everything
Among the other fun things she is doing, she is now the best back seat driver. She knows, Red means "stop, Yellow means "be careful" and Green means "go". And she will tell you that EVERY time we are in the car.
Savannah has come quite the singer and reader. At any given time, she is singing some sort of song she has learned in school or church and if she isn't singing, she is reading one of her MANY books. Aric and I both LOVE that.
Thomas, my sweet, sweet boy.....(insert and sigh and smile, here) He is so very busy. He started walking at Christmas is quickly working his way to running a marathon. It will be any day now, I just know it! He is such a smart baby but not nearly as independent as Savannah. He loves to be held and will not hesitate to let you know when he wants something. (I think he will let the whole neighborhood know.) He understands so much these days. He will be 18 months old March 3. We are now at the point where we can't use "oh, he's just a baby and doesn't know better" excuse. He KNOWS! Oh, does he know. We are working on that right now. :)
February also brought potential buyers for our old house. We were thrilled when someone came in and offered us full asking price! Of course, it was too good to be true! Shame on you! ;) Owner financing with A LOT of stipulations, stress and high blood pressure.(that was the deal in a nut shell) The deal fell through, but, I firmly believe, it was for the better. We are now discussing putting it on the rental market. It would be managed through our realtors agency and probably be what is best for us right now. I would have never thought this would be something I would want to do, but after much discussion and prayer, God is truly telling me to lean on Him. More to come to later and how that works out!
Here are a few pics of Savannah and Thomas in February.
First night of Gymnastics!
Honestly, the best picture I can get of this busy boy!
Forget to mention, we went to see Kirk Cameron speak in Montgomery. I was very starstruck!
This is Warren Barfield! AWESOME person! He is a GREAT singer also!
Since my last post in January, I mentioned that I needed to decorare our new home. (WELL,I still have yet to decorate our new home. :( I know, I know, you're probably thinking, what in the world does she do in all of her spare time? Oh, you'd be surprised! I have been looking at stuff (online and in stores) trying to get ideas, chasing two very busy children, cleaning, cooking, traveling, sleeping, exercising.....I always thought once we moved in I would immediately want to/have to decorate and get everything just right. Well, I am far from having that Martha Stewart touch and quite frankly, I want to take my time. First of all, decorating costs money and if I am going to be spending money (even if it is gift cards to East Chase!) I want to make sure I get what we like and what suits our home. Second, Aric and I have very different tastes, so for me to just go out and buy stuff for the house I like, would be a very bad idea. Finally, between those two previous
Savannah started her first ever gymnastics class at the Prattville YMCA. She already participates in the Big Green Bus at her school once a week, so thankfully, she already had some "experience" with gym stuff. The first day of class, she went right over and sat in the circle with the other children for roll call. She didn't even look back! I may have shed a tear. She is becoming so independent and excited to do everything
Among the other fun things she is doing, she is now the best back seat driver. She knows, Red means "stop, Yellow means "be careful" and Green means "go". And she will tell you that EVERY time we are in the car.
Savannah has come quite the singer and reader. At any given time, she is singing some sort of song she has learned in school or church and if she isn't singing, she is reading one of her MANY books. Aric and I both LOVE that.
Thomas, my sweet, sweet boy.....(insert and sigh and smile, here) He is so very busy. He started walking at Christmas is quickly working his way to running a marathon. It will be any day now, I just know it! He is such a smart baby but not nearly as independent as Savannah. He loves to be held and will not hesitate to let you know when he wants something. (I think he will let the whole neighborhood know.) He understands so much these days. He will be 18 months old March 3. We are now at the point where we can't use "oh, he's just a baby and doesn't know better" excuse. He KNOWS! Oh, does he know. We are working on that right now. :)
February also brought potential buyers for our old house. We were thrilled when someone came in and offered us full asking price! Of course, it was too good to be true! Shame on you! ;) Owner financing with A LOT of stipulations, stress and high blood pressure.(that was the deal in a nut shell) The deal fell through, but, I firmly believe, it was for the better. We are now discussing putting it on the rental market. It would be managed through our realtors agency and probably be what is best for us right now. I would have never thought this would be something I would want to do, but after much discussion and prayer, God is truly telling me to lean on Him. More to come to later and how that works out!
Here are a few pics of Savannah and Thomas in February.
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Welcome 2012!
Happy New Year everyone!
In the past, a new year, for me, meant nothing. It was just a new year, resolutions were silly and nothing had changed. Negative Nancy? Maybe just a little. This year is different. This year I am thankful the Lord has brought me this far. 2011 was a year of realizations. Realizing how incredibly blessed I am as well as others. I realized that even though our nation may be struggling, I still have the freedom to do so many things, if I were to name them all.....well, I wouldn't even be able to. One thing remains the same; God is awesome and mighty. His love is unfailing and his mercies are abundant.
So, with my new outlook on a new year,I actually made resolutions this year. Because I know I cannot do it on my own, I have been praying diligently, "With Gods help I will....". I have also reminded myself that I am not perfect and will mess up. When I struggle with a resolution, finding myself far from completing it, I will not give up. 2012 will be a challenging year but, with God, nothing is impossible.
Now, how about some fun updates on our fun little family?
We are officially, Prattvillians! That doesn't sound right....hmm...you get the picture.
Our new home is such a blessing. I thank God daily for how he continues to provide for our family. The children are adjusting well. They really haven't seems phased by the move and a new home. We are all unpacked and settled. The next step, I guess, would trying to figure out this whole decorating thing. I have NO IDEA where to even start, so I will be relying heavily on Pinterest or some other website to get my creative juices flowing. Any ideas from you all are welcome of course!
Wondering about our old house? It still hasn't sold. While I am a little bummed about that, already in the new year, we have had some interested folks looking. Prayers appreciated in that area of our lives!
2012 will be a busy but fun year.
If here is anything we can be praying about for you, please let us know! Prayer really works and changes lives.
Have a wonderful day, week, month!
God Bless!
Emily
Tuesday, November 29, 2011
Hodge Podge
I sure hope everyone had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Did you eat a lot, travel and shop? We did only two of those this year and that was eat a lot and shop. We stayed here in town and enjoyed turkey day at my folks house. It was very low key and uneventful. We ate, looked at black Friday ads and watched some football. We arrived back at our home that evening, got the kids settled and browsed some great black Friday deals online. Let me just say, that is the way to shop! No getting up early, waiting in line for hours, just to find out the item you were after sold out 10 people before you. We found some steals in the comfort of our own home! Y'all should try it next year, you won't regret it.
Friday was a day that couldn't have been more lazy. We did absolutely nothing. While it was nice to rest, I fe
lt like such a bum. Productivity was zero. No dishes were washed, no laundry was folded...........(yawn)....whew, I'm getting sleepy just thinking about it.
Saturday was a big day here in Alabama. The Iron Bowl came to the loveliest village on the plains and we were there to see every last bit of it. Unfortunately, Alabama pulled out a win but revenge is sweet I guess. Disappointment was obvious to most Auburn fans as they started to clear the stadium with 9 minutes left in the game. We may have lost but I still love some Auburn football, and we were there until the end cheering for our Tigers. War Eagle! We can try again next year.
Some family came in town late Saturday night. I wish it was for better reasons. Aric and his sisters lost a sweet mentor they had known for a long time, so a funeral was the reason for the visit. It was, however, a nice visit. Everyone left Sunday after the funeral. The long Thanksgiving weekend came to an end and then Christmas started.
I just love the Christmas season. We will be moving and traveling this year, so it will be very busy but it still means that we get to celebrate Christ's birth, and that is just fun!
Switching gears and re-winding for a minute, Savannah turned 3 on November 20. We didn't have a party this year. We kept it simple yet fun. She had a special birthday breakfast of mini pancakes, at church, her class sang Happy Birthday, and later that day we, opened presents from Grammy and Gramps and had birthday cake. Our present to Savannah was a trip to Toys R Us where we let her pick out one gift. What did she choose? 3 $.99 containers of Play Doh! We got her a set that includeda little mini desk so she would have something to play on. All in all, it was a good fun day and Savannah was so very happy.
Well, that's all I've got for this morning. I would type more but trying to blog on my phone is hard. Go me for getting this far!
I hope y'all have a wonderful, happy day!
Blessings,
Emily
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
Thanks
Well, we've been TERRIBLE about getting posts to the blog this year... Ever since we disconnected our Internet at the house, it's just so hard to think of getting on here and posting updates. PLEASE FORGIVE US!!!
We have had a BUSY, BUSY year! The new house in Prattville is nearly completed now - we're potentially going to be ready to close within the next week or so - WOW! We look forward to getting in and getting settled and then welcoming our family and friends into our new home. Please do NOT be shy about coming by to see us!
We have also been busy with the old house - we've had so many repairs done this year, we have actually enjoyed living in it in recent weeks and months! LOL!!! However, we did have one particularly fun go of things last week when the main water supply line from the city's meter to our house decided to rupture - and, of COURSE, that happened on a day that we had someone coming by to view the house!!! Well, we've got that replaced now, so (hopefully) someone will see that as another added benefit not typically found in older homes and will decide to snap it up! :) We are praying fervently to the Lord that He will bring another family into this home that He can bless in the same way that He has blessed us over the years that we've been here. Emily and I met, wed, and had two children while living in this house and we are TREMENDOUSLY thankful for the times we have shared together inside those walls. (However, we are definitely excited to see the day when those walls are occupied by somebody else and we can move on to the next chapter in our lives and to our new home!)
Savannah & Thomas are both just as precious as ever... Thomas is "cruising", but just hasn't quite gotten up the courage to take off and start walking yet - which is fine by me because he's SO busy and we know things are going to get even more "interesting" once he can run instead of crawling! Savannah is smart as all GET OUT and even more beautiful. I can't even begin to describe how proud we are of our two children.
Work is still going strong - we're blessed to still have plenty of work to keep us busy, especially in an environment and a market where that is so very rare. God is so good to us and we give Him thanks for the blessing of stress and difficulty in trying to keep up with everything!
Our families are doing relatively well - Aric's parents ("Nana & Popsie") have gotten settled into their new home in Kentucky and have gone about remodeling the whole thing from the top-down. Mary Beth is still running 120mph, chasing after Lane & Lorilee who have just completely grown up ALL OF THE SUDDEN. Shari is enjoying a continuing "honeymoon period" with Wesley - can't believe they've already been married for TWO YEARS!!! And, NOW, Kristen has decided to take off for Nashville and is doing very well in this first chapter of her career as a nurse. We'll miss seeing everyone for Thanksgiving, but we can't wait to get together for Christmas this year!!! :)
Emily's parents ("Grammy & Gramps") are doing well, but are having a hard time dealing with the continued decline in the health of Emily's grandfather ("HaHa"). Katie is doing relatively well, and is now working at a big resort down there near the beach and says she really enjoys her job. She had a nasty spill a while back, but has recovered well and is still pounding the pavement when she can. We're HOPING we can host the Hoppers (and maybe Kristen too) for Thanksgiving this year, but we won't exactly be settled into the new house yet, so who knows...?
Anyway, that's about all from the land of the Lobensteins for now. We hope you are all doing well - please don't be strangers!!! Keep in touch and let us know how we can pray for you and your loved ones. 'Til then, may God's blessings be both abundant AND obvious in your lives.
We have had a BUSY, BUSY year! The new house in Prattville is nearly completed now - we're potentially going to be ready to close within the next week or so - WOW! We look forward to getting in and getting settled and then welcoming our family and friends into our new home. Please do NOT be shy about coming by to see us!
We have also been busy with the old house - we've had so many repairs done this year, we have actually enjoyed living in it in recent weeks and months! LOL!!! However, we did have one particularly fun go of things last week when the main water supply line from the city's meter to our house decided to rupture - and, of COURSE, that happened on a day that we had someone coming by to view the house!!! Well, we've got that replaced now, so (hopefully) someone will see that as another added benefit not typically found in older homes and will decide to snap it up! :) We are praying fervently to the Lord that He will bring another family into this home that He can bless in the same way that He has blessed us over the years that we've been here. Emily and I met, wed, and had two children while living in this house and we are TREMENDOUSLY thankful for the times we have shared together inside those walls. (However, we are definitely excited to see the day when those walls are occupied by somebody else and we can move on to the next chapter in our lives and to our new home!)
Savannah & Thomas are both just as precious as ever... Thomas is "cruising", but just hasn't quite gotten up the courage to take off and start walking yet - which is fine by me because he's SO busy and we know things are going to get even more "interesting" once he can run instead of crawling! Savannah is smart as all GET OUT and even more beautiful. I can't even begin to describe how proud we are of our two children.
Work is still going strong - we're blessed to still have plenty of work to keep us busy, especially in an environment and a market where that is so very rare. God is so good to us and we give Him thanks for the blessing of stress and difficulty in trying to keep up with everything!
Our families are doing relatively well - Aric's parents ("Nana & Popsie") have gotten settled into their new home in Kentucky and have gone about remodeling the whole thing from the top-down. Mary Beth is still running 120mph, chasing after Lane & Lorilee who have just completely grown up ALL OF THE SUDDEN. Shari is enjoying a continuing "honeymoon period" with Wesley - can't believe they've already been married for TWO YEARS!!! And, NOW, Kristen has decided to take off for Nashville and is doing very well in this first chapter of her career as a nurse. We'll miss seeing everyone for Thanksgiving, but we can't wait to get together for Christmas this year!!! :)
Emily's parents ("Grammy & Gramps") are doing well, but are having a hard time dealing with the continued decline in the health of Emily's grandfather ("HaHa"). Katie is doing relatively well, and is now working at a big resort down there near the beach and says she really enjoys her job. She had a nasty spill a while back, but has recovered well and is still pounding the pavement when she can. We're HOPING we can host the Hoppers (and maybe Kristen too) for Thanksgiving this year, but we won't exactly be settled into the new house yet, so who knows...?
Anyway, that's about all from the land of the Lobensteins for now. We hope you are all doing well - please don't be strangers!!! Keep in touch and let us know how we can pray for you and your loved ones. 'Til then, may God's blessings be both abundant AND obvious in your lives.
Monday, August 29, 2011
Update
Hello family and friends!
I'm sorry we've been so absent from our blogging in recent months... We started doing some renovation projects to our house to get it ready to market for sale and those took longer than expected and we wound up disconnecting our Internet connection altogether. Then, since we only have a few months until the new house will be completed, we've just never bothered to reconnect the Internet or hook the computer back up. As it turns out, that was a really cool move because we've converted our office into a play room where Savannah and Thomas can keep their toys and play together. We have a BLAST in there together!
Regarding the new house, things are progressing nicely... We've got all the framing completed, the roof is on, all the rough plumbing and electrical is done, and the bath tubs & shower are all in place. It's looking good and we're really getting excited as we see it all coming together! This week, we should be getting brick and sheetrock, and then we'll follow that with paint, cabinets, and floor coverings. We're really seeing a light at the end of the tunnel a LOT faster than we expected to!!! (Now if we could just hold still long enough to get the rest of the checklist items completed on the old house so we could go ahead and get it listed on the market!!!)
Savannah and Thomas are both doing great. Savannah is learning at exponential speeds and constantly surprises me with all the new things she knows and does. Thomas is a doggone monkey and loves to climb on everything. I can't believe that he will be a YEAR old in less than a week! And then, Savannah will be THREE years old in less than three months!!! Where did the time go???
Anyway, just wanted to check in and let everyone know we haven't fallen off the face of the planet. We hope you are all well and that God's blessings are as abundant in your lives as He has been in ours lately.
I'm sorry we've been so absent from our blogging in recent months... We started doing some renovation projects to our house to get it ready to market for sale and those took longer than expected and we wound up disconnecting our Internet connection altogether. Then, since we only have a few months until the new house will be completed, we've just never bothered to reconnect the Internet or hook the computer back up. As it turns out, that was a really cool move because we've converted our office into a play room where Savannah and Thomas can keep their toys and play together. We have a BLAST in there together!
Regarding the new house, things are progressing nicely... We've got all the framing completed, the roof is on, all the rough plumbing and electrical is done, and the bath tubs & shower are all in place. It's looking good and we're really getting excited as we see it all coming together! This week, we should be getting brick and sheetrock, and then we'll follow that with paint, cabinets, and floor coverings. We're really seeing a light at the end of the tunnel a LOT faster than we expected to!!! (Now if we could just hold still long enough to get the rest of the checklist items completed on the old house so we could go ahead and get it listed on the market!!!)
Savannah and Thomas are both doing great. Savannah is learning at exponential speeds and constantly surprises me with all the new things she knows and does. Thomas is a doggone monkey and loves to climb on everything. I can't believe that he will be a YEAR old in less than a week! And then, Savannah will be THREE years old in less than three months!!! Where did the time go???
Anyway, just wanted to check in and let everyone know we haven't fallen off the face of the planet. We hope you are all well and that God's blessings are as abundant in your lives as He has been in ours lately.
Monday, April 4, 2011
Taking a sabbatical
Hey y'all!
We have started some major home improvements over the past few weeks so we had to disconnect our home computer in order to move our "office" to storage.
Sorry for the delay in blogging but it may be awhile longer before we have everything up and running.
Right now, I am using the computer lab at our wonderful library in downtown Montgomery. I have Thomas with me so this will be short and sweet.
Please stay tuned! My blogging days are not over!
Have a wonderful day and remember..... "This is the day the Lord has made." Psalm 118:24
We have started some major home improvements over the past few weeks so we had to disconnect our home computer in order to move our "office" to storage.
Sorry for the delay in blogging but it may be awhile longer before we have everything up and running.
Right now, I am using the computer lab at our wonderful library in downtown Montgomery. I have Thomas with me so this will be short and sweet.
Please stay tuned! My blogging days are not over!
Have a wonderful day and remember..... "This is the day the Lord has made." Psalm 118:24
Monday, March 14, 2011
Changing the World
Hello All -
This is Aric, making a very rare appearance on the Blog... I just wanted to send out a quick note to let everyone know that Emily and the Leaders have arrived successfully in Wiggins, MS and have begun their work. World Changers is the organization they are working with and they are doing several construction and renovation projects to a home that was beaten and battered by Hurricane Katrina. Yes, there are still a LOT of people in the greater Gulf Coast region that are trying to recover from that massive storm all those many years ago! Anyway, they got down there last night; got settled into the church where they are staying; and had some devotional time with the other groups that are participating in this mission trip over Spring Break.
I am sure Emily will post an update with more details about the goings-on and the work they do this week once she gets back, but I at least wanted everyone to know they are there and are working hard. Please pray for this group as they attempt to help change the world, one small piece at a time, through a demonstration of Christ's love for others and through the spreading of the Good News with those that they encounter. May God bless those that the Leaders are helping and may this experience be a blessing for the Leaders as well! And, may God bless each and every one of our family and friends who are reading this. We love you all and hope you are well!
This is Aric, making a very rare appearance on the Blog... I just wanted to send out a quick note to let everyone know that Emily and the Leaders have arrived successfully in Wiggins, MS and have begun their work. World Changers is the organization they are working with and they are doing several construction and renovation projects to a home that was beaten and battered by Hurricane Katrina. Yes, there are still a LOT of people in the greater Gulf Coast region that are trying to recover from that massive storm all those many years ago! Anyway, they got down there last night; got settled into the church where they are staying; and had some devotional time with the other groups that are participating in this mission trip over Spring Break.
I am sure Emily will post an update with more details about the goings-on and the work they do this week once she gets back, but I at least wanted everyone to know they are there and are working hard. Please pray for this group as they attempt to help change the world, one small piece at a time, through a demonstration of Christ's love for others and through the spreading of the Good News with those that they encounter. May God bless those that the Leaders are helping and may this experience be a blessing for the Leaders as well! And, may God bless each and every one of our family and friends who are reading this. We love you all and hope you are well!
Saturday, March 5, 2011
Katie...update
Last week, I went down to Fairhope to help out my sister. She was literally, helpless. I felt so bad for her but kept her spirits high while I was there. I went down on Monday and came back Wednesday night. She had a doctors appointment Tuesday morning and it went very well. The doctor was hopeful that she will be running again and as for right now, no more surgeries in the future! She will have to be on crutches, however, for about 6-12 weeks and it is going to be at least 6 months before she can do any type of exercise. And when she does get to that point, it will have to be low impact, like water aerobics, cycling, etc.
She is doing a little bit more every day. When I first arrived, she couldn't even get dressed without help, now, she can SLOWLY do it herself.
For my sister, this is a very hard thing. She has lived on her own now for 5+ years and is not used to really relying on people for things. It is VERY HARD for her to ask for help. She is getting used to the fact that she is going to need help and it is OK to ask for help.
I am going to brag on her running club for a minute. These people are AWESOME! They have been taking her to her doctor appointments, bringing food, going to the grocery store, walking her dog....need I go on. And the best thing is, they do it with a joyful heart. Katie is very lucky to have such sweet friends. Of course, I am not forgetting about my parents, they have been a huge help too, but I was just amazed at how her friends have really stepped up to help out. With me not getting down there to visit very often, I don't get to meet a lot of her friends but this past week, I had the pleasure of meeting a few of them.
Moving right along, once I got home Wednesday night, I was POOPED! Taking care of an adult, a toddler, an infant and yourself is not an easy task. I totally have MUCH more respect for single parents out there. Especially single parents of 2 or more kids. I don't know how they do it! All of that being said, I was glad to help out. I wish I could have stayed longer but I sure did miss the husband. I might actually make another trip depending on her progress. Katie will go back to the doctor in 2 weeks for another check up on things she will also have some PT. We will just see how things go and move from there.
I don't know if I have mentioned this before but I am going on a mission trip in just a few days! I am going with the Leaders Club down to Wiggins, MS to help out with World Changers. I will be going down with 11 of our teenagers with Leaders Club and 2 other adults. The fun thing about this particular trip is that it is not only my first mission trip, I am also leading it! God is giving me an opportunity of a lifetime here! Once we get to Wiggins, MS, we will be staying at FBC of Wiggins and will be working on a house that was hit by Katrina. Please pray for our group as enter this mission field. We will be leaving this Sunday around 9AM and coming back Wednesday afternoon. For more info, go to www.world-changers.net.
Thomas had his 6 month well check up earlier this week. Is now 14lbs 6.5oz and 26 inches long. He is sitting up by himself, rolling over, grabbing EVERYTHING (including my hair...ouch!) He has the sweetest little laugh and is doing very well on baby food. We started stage 2 last night! Sleeping through the night is still a struggle but with the problems we have had with Savannah, this is nothing new for us.
Tomorrow we are having some men from our small group from church coming over to help Aric on the house. We are trying to get itfixed up fixed to sell. We are VERY fortunate to know these people that are coming help and hopefully the work they help us with will help get our house looking better.
I apologize that this blog entry is late and a little scatttered. I actually started typing this last week when I got back from Fairhope. Our week has just been so busy!
I will post some more about the mission trip when I get back. I can't wait to share what God has done!
Happy Friday y'all!
Emily
She is doing a little bit more every day. When I first arrived, she couldn't even get dressed without help, now, she can SLOWLY do it herself.
For my sister, this is a very hard thing. She has lived on her own now for 5+ years and is not used to really relying on people for things. It is VERY HARD for her to ask for help. She is getting used to the fact that she is going to need help and it is OK to ask for help.
I am going to brag on her running club for a minute. These people are AWESOME! They have been taking her to her doctor appointments, bringing food, going to the grocery store, walking her dog....need I go on. And the best thing is, they do it with a joyful heart. Katie is very lucky to have such sweet friends. Of course, I am not forgetting about my parents, they have been a huge help too, but I was just amazed at how her friends have really stepped up to help out. With me not getting down there to visit very often, I don't get to meet a lot of her friends but this past week, I had the pleasure of meeting a few of them.
Moving right along, once I got home Wednesday night, I was POOPED! Taking care of an adult, a toddler, an infant and yourself is not an easy task. I totally have MUCH more respect for single parents out there. Especially single parents of 2 or more kids. I don't know how they do it! All of that being said, I was glad to help out. I wish I could have stayed longer but I sure did miss the husband. I might actually make another trip depending on her progress. Katie will go back to the doctor in 2 weeks for another check up on things she will also have some PT. We will just see how things go and move from there.
I don't know if I have mentioned this before but I am going on a mission trip in just a few days! I am going with the Leaders Club down to Wiggins, MS to help out with World Changers. I will be going down with 11 of our teenagers with Leaders Club and 2 other adults. The fun thing about this particular trip is that it is not only my first mission trip, I am also leading it! God is giving me an opportunity of a lifetime here! Once we get to Wiggins, MS, we will be staying at FBC of Wiggins and will be working on a house that was hit by Katrina. Please pray for our group as enter this mission field. We will be leaving this Sunday around 9AM and coming back Wednesday afternoon. For more info, go to www.world-changers.net.
Thomas had his 6 month well check up earlier this week. Is now 14lbs 6.5oz and 26 inches long. He is sitting up by himself, rolling over, grabbing EVERYTHING (including my hair...ouch!) He has the sweetest little laugh and is doing very well on baby food. We started stage 2 last night! Sleeping through the night is still a struggle but with the problems we have had with Savannah, this is nothing new for us.
Tomorrow we are having some men from our small group from church coming over to help Aric on the house. We are trying to get it
I apologize that this blog entry is late and a little scatttered. I actually started typing this last week when I got back from Fairhope. Our week has just been so busy!
I will post some more about the mission trip when I get back. I can't wait to share what God has done!
Happy Friday y'all!
Emily
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Katie
My sister had an accident Tuesday night while with her running group. She fell and dislocated her hip. For those of you who don't know her she is an avid runner. She recently completed her first marathon in under 4 hours! Holy Cow that is awesome!
She has been a runner now for a while and loves it. Most people have kids, or craft hobbies or something they really enjoy, well, running is IT for her. Not saying that is all she does but she really enjoys it and is REALLY good at it. Anywho, my sweet sister lives in Fairhope and has a sweet boyfriend, pictured here
Darin has been helping her since the accident but he is a civilian contractor and has been in Afghanistan for over a year now, he has to return home this weekend so he can go back to Afghanistan.
So, to the grimy details. After she fell, her running group called 911 and she got rushed to the hospital. First of all, let me just PRAISE GOD that she was with some people. Katie runs by herself often and had she been by herself, I don't even want to know what would have happened.
They tried to put her hip back in place but it just wasn't happening. They did a surgery to try and repair it and while in surgery they found that some bone had been broken off when her hip dislocated. While that surgery helped a little, she had to then see a specialist to see if further surgery will be needed and they concluded that more surgery would be the answer. That was decided today. She will have surgery in the AM at USA in Mobile.
My mom just had cateract surgery today and will be going to help my sister out after her follow up appointment on her eyes tomorrow morning.
Once my sister is released from the hospital, which will probably be Sunday, I will pack up the kids and head down there to help out.
Please say a prayer for Katie. I realize it could have been a lot worse but she is really shaken up over this whole thing. She is worried that she may never be able to run again and if she can run, that she won't be able to run fast.
Also if you could pray for me as I journey with my two kids to help out. Aric will have to work so I will be traveling by my lonesome.
Katie, if you are reading this, we love you. Hang in there. God knows the plans He has for you. No matter what happens, remember to praise Him and give Him glory. He will never leave you or forsake you.
Unfortunately this is the most recent pic I could find of me and the sister. I guess I need to do a better job of taking pictures!
Katie finishing at "Make it to the line" 4 mile run at the Flora-Bama
She has been a runner now for a while and loves it. Most people have kids, or craft hobbies or something they really enjoy, well, running is IT for her. Not saying that is all she does but she really enjoys it and is REALLY good at it. Anywho, my sweet sister lives in Fairhope and has a sweet boyfriend, pictured here
Darin has been helping her since the accident but he is a civilian contractor and has been in Afghanistan for over a year now, he has to return home this weekend so he can go back to Afghanistan.
So, to the grimy details. After she fell, her running group called 911 and she got rushed to the hospital. First of all, let me just PRAISE GOD that she was with some people. Katie runs by herself often and had she been by herself, I don't even want to know what would have happened.
They tried to put her hip back in place but it just wasn't happening. They did a surgery to try and repair it and while in surgery they found that some bone had been broken off when her hip dislocated. While that surgery helped a little, she had to then see a specialist to see if further surgery will be needed and they concluded that more surgery would be the answer. That was decided today. She will have surgery in the AM at USA in Mobile.
My mom just had cateract surgery today and will be going to help my sister out after her follow up appointment on her eyes tomorrow morning.
Once my sister is released from the hospital, which will probably be Sunday, I will pack up the kids and head down there to help out.
Please say a prayer for Katie. I realize it could have been a lot worse but she is really shaken up over this whole thing. She is worried that she may never be able to run again and if she can run, that she won't be able to run fast.
Also if you could pray for me as I journey with my two kids to help out. Aric will have to work so I will be traveling by my lonesome.
Katie, if you are reading this, we love you. Hang in there. God knows the plans He has for you. No matter what happens, remember to praise Him and give Him glory. He will never leave you or forsake you.
Unfortunately this is the most recent pic I could find of me and the sister. I guess I need to do a better job of taking pictures!
Katie finishing at "Make it to the line" 4 mile run at the Flora-Bama
Thursday, February 17, 2011
Spring weather and a few other warm thoughts
How about this beautiful weather? I wish it was like this year round. The problem with that is, I would never get anything done because I would want to be outside all the time! I must say, this warmer weather will perk up anyone's spirits and give you that much needed encouragement to lose those pesky pounds you've been storing all winter. (preaching to myself here)
As my thoughts wander to an image of a slimmer self, I digress. I am going to enjoy this weather and make the most of it. Before we know it, it may be snowing again...hey, it is Alabama we're talking about here!
Some exciting news to share...Savannah has been going potty lately, A LOT! While she is still not 100% potty trained, she is making big steps in the right direction. Aric and I decided we wouldn't push potty training too hard but, since she has been showing major interest, we decided we needed to start being consistent and start encouraging her more. The cutest thing is, and I'm sure only a parent would appreciate this, but, she will get SO EXCITED after she does her business. I LOVE IT and can't help but to get excited with her. I like to make a big deal out of it so I pull out all the happiness that you can get from singing, to dancing even cheering. Can any other parent's relate to this? Please say yes and make me feel better :)
Thomas is getting bigger by the day and cuter ;)
Last night I gave the kids a bath togeher and it was the cutest thing to watch them. Thomas really likes to study Savannah a lot and Savannah loves to entertain Thomas. At one point in time during bath time, Thomas started splashing in the baby tub which I put in the big tub with Savannah, and both of them, at the same exact time, started to laugh. Thomas had his cute little baby squeak of a laugh and Savannah had her sweet toddler cackle. It just warmed my heart to hear that and all the sleepless nights and moments of defiance quickly melted away.
Some recent accomplishments of "the boy", as Aric and I like to call him, are that he has rolled over and is continuing to do so on a daily basis and he is not doing too bad in sitting up by himself. Aric reminded me this morning that Thomas will 6 months old in two weeks! Time to start planning his first birthday...j/k!
Valentine's Day was just another day around our house. We never really do much of anything and I am ok with that. Aric surprised me by taking me to lunch at Ala Thai, one of my favorites! The sweet part about that is, Aric CANNOT stand Thai food. He managed to hold down some pad thai but in the end, probably left there starving because I know he did not enjoy it at all. Oh the sweet things my hubby does for me. He adores me and I am so undeserving of it.
We have some other exciting news to share...NO, we are NOT pregnant! Don't get me wrong, if God blessed us again with another child we would be thrilled but, we are praying that he blesses us with something else right now, like.....a house! I don't want to speak too soon but, if all goes well, then we will have a house built in Prattville. This is something we have been in prayer over for a long time. We are busting at the seams in this house Aric bought way before I even met him. While I am grateful to have this house we are in now, a lot of our lifestyle is happening in Prattville and this decision to move has been in the works for some time now. Prayers are coveted right now as we embark on this new journey.
Well folks, that is it for now. I could really blog all day about many useless things but who has time for that? ;)
Now, lets all get out and enjoy this weather! (happy dance, happy dance)
Emily
As my thoughts wander to an image of a slimmer self, I digress. I am going to enjoy this weather and make the most of it. Before we know it, it may be snowing again...hey, it is Alabama we're talking about here!
Some exciting news to share...Savannah has been going potty lately, A LOT! While she is still not 100% potty trained, she is making big steps in the right direction. Aric and I decided we wouldn't push potty training too hard but, since she has been showing major interest, we decided we needed to start being consistent and start encouraging her more. The cutest thing is, and I'm sure only a parent would appreciate this, but, she will get SO EXCITED after she does her business. I LOVE IT and can't help but to get excited with her. I like to make a big deal out of it so I pull out all the happiness that you can get from singing, to dancing even cheering. Can any other parent's relate to this? Please say yes and make me feel better :)
Thomas is getting bigger by the day and cuter ;)
Last night I gave the kids a bath togeher and it was the cutest thing to watch them. Thomas really likes to study Savannah a lot and Savannah loves to entertain Thomas. At one point in time during bath time, Thomas started splashing in the baby tub which I put in the big tub with Savannah, and both of them, at the same exact time, started to laugh. Thomas had his cute little baby squeak of a laugh and Savannah had her sweet toddler cackle. It just warmed my heart to hear that and all the sleepless nights and moments of defiance quickly melted away.
Some recent accomplishments of "the boy", as Aric and I like to call him, are that he has rolled over and is continuing to do so on a daily basis and he is not doing too bad in sitting up by himself. Aric reminded me this morning that Thomas will 6 months old in two weeks! Time to start planning his first birthday...j/k!
Valentine's Day was just another day around our house. We never really do much of anything and I am ok with that. Aric surprised me by taking me to lunch at Ala Thai, one of my favorites! The sweet part about that is, Aric CANNOT stand Thai food. He managed to hold down some pad thai but in the end, probably left there starving because I know he did not enjoy it at all. Oh the sweet things my hubby does for me. He adores me and I am so undeserving of it.
We have some other exciting news to share...NO, we are NOT pregnant! Don't get me wrong, if God blessed us again with another child we would be thrilled but, we are praying that he blesses us with something else right now, like.....a house! I don't want to speak too soon but, if all goes well, then we will have a house built in Prattville. This is something we have been in prayer over for a long time. We are busting at the seams in this house Aric bought way before I even met him. While I am grateful to have this house we are in now, a lot of our lifestyle is happening in Prattville and this decision to move has been in the works for some time now. Prayers are coveted right now as we embark on this new journey.
Well folks, that is it for now. I could really blog all day about many useless things but who has time for that? ;)
Now, lets all get out and enjoy this weather! (happy dance, happy dance)
Emily
Monday, February 14, 2011
A not-so romantic Valentine...interesting!
I found this article on a website, see link below, and found it interesting. I will warn you, it is a bit lengthy but if you can take a few minutes to read it, you might just find it interesting as well. (okay, okay, I am probably the only nerd that will find it interesting)
Happy Valentine's Day!
Valentine's Day — History.com Articles, Video, Pictures and Facts
The history of Valentine's Day — and its patron saint — is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.
One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men — his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.
Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first "valentine" greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor's daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed "From your Valentine," an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.
While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial — which probably occurred around 270 A.D — others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to "christianize" celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.
To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.
The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman "lottery" system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February — Valentine's Day — should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.
In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.
According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)
Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.
Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap."
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Happy Valentine's Day!
Valentine's Day — History.com Articles, Video, Pictures and Facts
The history of Valentine's Day — and its patron saint — is shrouded in mystery. But we do know that February has long been a month of romance. St. Valentine's Day, as we know it today, contains vestiges of both Christian and ancient Roman tradition. So, who was Saint Valentine and how did he become associated with this ancient rite? Today, the Catholic Church recognizes at least three different saints named Valentine or Valentinus, all of whom were martyred.
One legend contends that Valentine was a priest who served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men — his crop of potential soldiers. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret. When Valentine's actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death.
Other stories suggest that Valentine may have been killed for attempting to help Christians escape harsh Roman prisons where they were often beaten and tortured.
According to one legend, Valentine actually sent the first "valentine" greeting himself. While in prison, it is believed that Valentine fell in love with a young girl — who may have been his jailor's daughter — who visited him during his confinement. Before his death, it is alleged that he wrote her a letter, which he signed "From your Valentine," an expression that is still in use today. Although the truth behind the Valentine legends is murky, the stories certainly emphasize his appeal as a sympathetic, heroic, and, most importantly, romantic figure. It's no surprise that by the Middle Ages, Valentine was one of the most popular saints in England and France.
While some believe that Valentine's Day is celebrated in the middle of February to commemorate the anniversary of Valentine's death or burial — which probably occurred around 270 A.D — others claim that the Christian church may have decided to celebrate Valentine's feast day in the middle of February in an effort to "christianize" celebrations of the pagan Lupercalia festival. In ancient Rome, February was the official beginning of spring and was considered a time for purification. Houses were ritually cleansed by sweeping them out and then sprinkling salt and a type of wheat called spelt throughout their interiors. Lupercalia, which began at the ides of February, February 15, was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus.
To begin the festival, members of the Luperci, an order of Roman priests, would gather at the sacred cave where the infants Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome, were believed to have been cared for by a she-wolf or lupa. The priests would then sacrifice a goat, for fertility, and a dog, for purification.
The boys then sliced the goat's hide into strips, dipped them in the sacrificial blood and took to the streets, gently slapping both women and fields of crops with the goathide strips. Far from being fearful, Roman women welcomed being touched with the hides because it was believed the strips would make them more fertile in the coming year. Later in the day, according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city's bachelors would then each choose a name out of the urn and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage. Pope Gelasius declared February 14 St. Valentine's Day around 498 A.D. The Roman "lottery" system for romantic pairing was deemed un-Christian and outlawed. Later, during the Middle Ages, it was commonly believed in France and England that February 14 was the beginning of birds' mating season, which added to the idea that the middle of February — Valentine's Day — should be a day for romance. The oldest known valentine still in existence today was a poem written by Charles, Duke of Orleans to his wife while he was imprisoned in the Tower of London following his capture at the Battle of Agincourt. The greeting, which was written in 1415, is part of the manuscript collection of the British Library in London, England. Several years later, it is believed that King Henry V hired a writer named John Lydgate to compose a valentine note to Catherine of Valois.
In Great Britain, Valentine's Day began to be popularly celebrated around the seventeenth century. By the middle of the eighteenth century, it was common for friends and lovers in all social classes to exchange small tokens of affection or handwritten notes. By the end of the century, printed cards began to replace written letters due to improvements in printing technology. Ready-made cards were an easy way for people to express their emotions in a time when direct expression of one's feelings was discouraged. Cheaper postage rates also contributed to an increase in the popularity of sending Valentine's Day greetings. Americans probably began exchanging hand-made valentines in the early 1700s. In the 1840s, Esther A. Howland began to sell the first mass-produced valentines in America.
According to the Greeting Card Association, an estimated one billion valentine cards are sent each year, making Valentine's Day the second largest card-sending holiday of the year. (An estimated 2.6 billion cards are sent for Christmas.)
Approximately 85 percent of all valentines are purchased by women. In addition to the United States, Valentine's Day is celebrated in Canada, Mexico, the United Kingdom, France, and Australia.
Valentine greetings were popular as far back as the Middle Ages (written Valentine's didn't begin to appear until after 1400), and the oldest known Valentine card is on display at the British Museum. The first commercial Valentine's Day greeting cards produced in the U.S. were created in the 1840s by Esther A. Howland. Howland, known as the Mother of the Valentine, made elaborate creations with real lace, ribbons and colorful pictures known as "scrap."
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Tuesday, January 25, 2011
Blog? Oh yeah, I need to do that!
Hey everyone!
It's been way too long and I have a lot to catch up on. I'll go ahead and warn you now, there won't by a lot pictures so, hang in there and get caught up with what's going on with the Lobensteins.
Christmas came and went like a whirlwind. We have decided to start rotating out Christmas and Thanksgiving between our families. For example, this year we spent Thanksgiving with Aric's family so next year we will spend Thanksgiving with my family. This year we spent Christmas with my family, next year we will spend it with Aric's family. You get the idea. I truly believe this rotation will help save a lot of headaches. It is so hard trying to visit with both families within a matter of a few days. Can anyone feel me on this? The weeks leading up to Christmas were very hectic but praise the Lord, Christmas day was very calm and enjoyable. Before we knew it, we had way too many presents and bellies full of food. God is so good with all blessings he has showered us with! (not referring to the presents here. I mean, good food, a roof over our heads and a great family!)
New Years was spent with sweet friends, The Smiths and The Sparrows. We get together every year, either before or after Christmas and do a little gift exchange. It was too fun and the kids were hilarious! I am so thankful for sweet friends in our life to lift us up and encourage us. We were home by 9pm and I just could not make it to midnight. I guess having a new baby and 2 year old will do that to you. :) Poor Aric insisted on staying up to watch the ball drop in Times Square and ending falling asleep on the couch. He didn't even get to see the ball drop!
2011 started off just as busy as 2010 ended.
Aric and I help out with an organization within the Prattville YMCA called Leaders Club. It is a Christ centered club that emphasizes the role of servant leadership while incorporating the values of the YMCA: Spirit, Mind and Body. We LOVE IT! The club has taken off and reached new heights. We work with about 40-50 teens and pre-teens every Tuesday night of the month. We also attend socials and service projects monthly with this group. We may stay busy but wouldn't trade it for anything. Working with these teens is such a blessing! God has really worked wonders in us and these teenagers; I can't wait to see where He is going to take us.
Changing subjects for a minute, and unfortunately it is not a good subject. Some of you know that my friend Brandy has been staying with us for awhile. Well, she and her dog, Huckleberry, have really been troopers. Living in a house with a 2 year old and a newborn, I'm sure, is not her idea of luxury but it has been a blast having her here with us. Her dog had become part of our family and truly felt like our dog too. (our other dogs, Kodi and Montana may have been a little jealous but they all learned to accept each other.) We came home one night to him laying in our neighbors yard. He had been hit by a car. For those of you who know where we live, our street is very busy. So busy that sometimes it is annoying. SLOW DOWN PEOPLE!
It was a sad, sad day in our household. Not too mention having to tell your best friend over the phone! That was awful! We will miss Huckleberry. I have lost several pets and for those of you that haven't, let me tell you, it is NOT easy! Brandy is doing well now and getting ready to deploy to Germany for two months. I told Brandy that I truly believe something good will come from this. Something amazing always happens after a tragedy. God has plans that we can't yet see and is using us in a mighty way!
Health. That's is the next thing that has been going on around here. My mom has been lifted up in prayer and continues to need serious prayer. Her health is not good right now. I honestly wish I could share more but, with the limited information that I am getting, that is about all I know. I will try and update as soon as I can.
As for me, I am doing well but could be better. I am scheduled to have a biopsy the first week of February. It is nothing too serious just more of a precaution. I am a little nervous but I know that God will provide and take care as he always does.
Aric's father has also had his fair share of problems. His parents are in the process of moving to Bowling Green, Kentucky so I know it is difficult for him. No matter what, we know that God is in control. We are putting everything in His hands. I'm starting to see a pattern here, no? :)
On a happier note, we recently have a made a big purchase that was MUCH NEEDED.
Introducing the MOMWAGN! (yes, that is how my new car tag reads)
We LOVE IT! I'll be quite honest, the idea of a minivan was something I did not like. It didn't seem as "cool" as an SUV. Well, I am a changed woman now. I test drove one and fell in love. It rides like a car, but feels like an SUV. The room in this thing is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. We ended up getting one that had some of the fancier options. It has a dual DVD system, leather seats, satellite radio. The sliding doors on boths sides are automatic...YES!!! No more difficult trips to the grocery store! We are extremely blessed and so thankful that God opened up this door for us!
The kiddos...oh man are they growing fast! Thomas is almost 5 months old and Savannah is such a smart little 2 year old.
She is now doing very well at putting 3-5 words together to make complete sentences. Her favorite things to say are: "Come on mommy!" and "What's that?" Savannah loves to read. At any given time during the day, she is sitting on the floor "reading" her books. She cannot read yet but hearing her jabber away is too cute. The other day she amazed us by singing her ABC's! The WHOLE Song! She was so excited she started clapping when she finished. Potty training has been a slow go thus far. She knows the potty and what you do in the potty but refuses to go. She has gone several times for Aric but when I practice with her, it is like trying to push a square block in a round circle. (BIG sigh) She loves to wash her hands, though! Potty or not, she is always saying, "wash the hands?" Our sweet Savannah can be very independent at times, wanting to wipe her own face, get in the van by herself, get dressed and even go take naps on her own. What happened to my baby??!! She also has started the terrible twos and throwing tantrums. The first real big one happend at Family Christian book store last week and I thought I was going to lose it. I remained calm, not drawing any more attention than I had too. I tucked her under my arms like a football and we left. It was awful! I don't know the best way to handle those but I was the mom with that child out in public. Oh well, hopefully this phase won't last too long. She is very well behaved overall and we are very pleased with her calm demeanor.
Thomas is such a sweet boy. He has been sleeping through the night ok up until recently. We just went to Mississippi this past weekend to visit Aric's sister. We didn't get on the road until late Friday night and that messed up Thomas's sleeping pattern. Since then he has been waking up during the night several times. It is hard but we know that it will be short lived once he can get back on his normal routine. (We can put him down between 9 and 10 and he will usually sleep until about 6.)
He has been laughing a lot lately. Every time I play with him, his little face just lights up! He is reaching out very well and very close to rolling over. He is not quite sitting up yet but we practice a little bit every day.
At his 4 month check up he weighed in at 12lbs 10oz and was 24 inches long. Savannah was little heavier and shorter at 14lbs 1 oz and 23 inches long.
Savannah loves being a big sister. She helps out with Thomas every chance she can get. I cannot wait until they can play together!
Our church family has been awesome! Centerpoint is growing and relationships are being restored every day! We recently became part of a Connect Group. As they say, "Centerpoint is not a church with small groups but a church of small groups" We are not going to have traditional sunday school classes but connect groups. Basically a small group of people, 10-12 people, that meet once a week in someone's house to fellowship and discuss the weeks sermon. The cool thing is, all of the connect groups at Centerpoint discuss the sermon for the week so that the WHOLE church can dive deeper into God's word and be on the same page. We love Centerpoint and are thrilled to be a part of such a great church family.
I believe 2011 is going to be a very promising year. God is moving and we are following!
God Bless and enjoy this rainy day!
Emily
It's been way too long and I have a lot to catch up on. I'll go ahead and warn you now, there won't by a lot pictures so, hang in there and get caught up with what's going on with the Lobensteins.
Christmas came and went like a whirlwind. We have decided to start rotating out Christmas and Thanksgiving between our families. For example, this year we spent Thanksgiving with Aric's family so next year we will spend Thanksgiving with my family. This year we spent Christmas with my family, next year we will spend it with Aric's family. You get the idea. I truly believe this rotation will help save a lot of headaches. It is so hard trying to visit with both families within a matter of a few days. Can anyone feel me on this? The weeks leading up to Christmas were very hectic but praise the Lord, Christmas day was very calm and enjoyable. Before we knew it, we had way too many presents and bellies full of food. God is so good with all blessings he has showered us with! (not referring to the presents here. I mean, good food, a roof over our heads and a great family!)
New Years was spent with sweet friends, The Smiths and The Sparrows. We get together every year, either before or after Christmas and do a little gift exchange. It was too fun and the kids were hilarious! I am so thankful for sweet friends in our life to lift us up and encourage us. We were home by 9pm and I just could not make it to midnight. I guess having a new baby and 2 year old will do that to you. :) Poor Aric insisted on staying up to watch the ball drop in Times Square and ending falling asleep on the couch. He didn't even get to see the ball drop!
2011 started off just as busy as 2010 ended.
Aric and I help out with an organization within the Prattville YMCA called Leaders Club. It is a Christ centered club that emphasizes the role of servant leadership while incorporating the values of the YMCA: Spirit, Mind and Body. We LOVE IT! The club has taken off and reached new heights. We work with about 40-50 teens and pre-teens every Tuesday night of the month. We also attend socials and service projects monthly with this group. We may stay busy but wouldn't trade it for anything. Working with these teens is such a blessing! God has really worked wonders in us and these teenagers; I can't wait to see where He is going to take us.
Changing subjects for a minute, and unfortunately it is not a good subject. Some of you know that my friend Brandy has been staying with us for awhile. Well, she and her dog, Huckleberry, have really been troopers. Living in a house with a 2 year old and a newborn, I'm sure, is not her idea of luxury but it has been a blast having her here with us. Her dog had become part of our family and truly felt like our dog too. (our other dogs, Kodi and Montana may have been a little jealous but they all learned to accept each other.) We came home one night to him laying in our neighbors yard. He had been hit by a car. For those of you who know where we live, our street is very busy. So busy that sometimes it is annoying. SLOW DOWN PEOPLE!
It was a sad, sad day in our household. Not too mention having to tell your best friend over the phone! That was awful! We will miss Huckleberry. I have lost several pets and for those of you that haven't, let me tell you, it is NOT easy! Brandy is doing well now and getting ready to deploy to Germany for two months. I told Brandy that I truly believe something good will come from this. Something amazing always happens after a tragedy. God has plans that we can't yet see and is using us in a mighty way!
Health. That's is the next thing that has been going on around here. My mom has been lifted up in prayer and continues to need serious prayer. Her health is not good right now. I honestly wish I could share more but, with the limited information that I am getting, that is about all I know. I will try and update as soon as I can.
As for me, I am doing well but could be better. I am scheduled to have a biopsy the first week of February. It is nothing too serious just more of a precaution. I am a little nervous but I know that God will provide and take care as he always does.
Aric's father has also had his fair share of problems. His parents are in the process of moving to Bowling Green, Kentucky so I know it is difficult for him. No matter what, we know that God is in control. We are putting everything in His hands. I'm starting to see a pattern here, no? :)
On a happier note, we recently have a made a big purchase that was MUCH NEEDED.
Introducing the MOMWAGN! (yes, that is how my new car tag reads)
We LOVE IT! I'll be quite honest, the idea of a minivan was something I did not like. It didn't seem as "cool" as an SUV. Well, I am a changed woman now. I test drove one and fell in love. It rides like a car, but feels like an SUV. The room in this thing is A-M-A-Z-I-N-G. We ended up getting one that had some of the fancier options. It has a dual DVD system, leather seats, satellite radio. The sliding doors on boths sides are automatic...YES!!! No more difficult trips to the grocery store! We are extremely blessed and so thankful that God opened up this door for us!
The kiddos...oh man are they growing fast! Thomas is almost 5 months old and Savannah is such a smart little 2 year old.
She is now doing very well at putting 3-5 words together to make complete sentences. Her favorite things to say are: "Come on mommy!" and "What's that?" Savannah loves to read. At any given time during the day, she is sitting on the floor "reading" her books. She cannot read yet but hearing her jabber away is too cute. The other day she amazed us by singing her ABC's! The WHOLE Song! She was so excited she started clapping when she finished. Potty training has been a slow go thus far. She knows the potty and what you do in the potty but refuses to go. She has gone several times for Aric but when I practice with her, it is like trying to push a square block in a round circle. (BIG sigh) She loves to wash her hands, though! Potty or not, she is always saying, "wash the hands?" Our sweet Savannah can be very independent at times, wanting to wipe her own face, get in the van by herself, get dressed and even go take naps on her own. What happened to my baby??!! She also has started the terrible twos and throwing tantrums. The first real big one happend at Family Christian book store last week and I thought I was going to lose it. I remained calm, not drawing any more attention than I had too. I tucked her under my arms like a football and we left. It was awful! I don't know the best way to handle those but I was the mom with that child out in public. Oh well, hopefully this phase won't last too long. She is very well behaved overall and we are very pleased with her calm demeanor.
Thomas is such a sweet boy. He has been sleeping through the night ok up until recently. We just went to Mississippi this past weekend to visit Aric's sister. We didn't get on the road until late Friday night and that messed up Thomas's sleeping pattern. Since then he has been waking up during the night several times. It is hard but we know that it will be short lived once he can get back on his normal routine. (We can put him down between 9 and 10 and he will usually sleep until about 6.)
He has been laughing a lot lately. Every time I play with him, his little face just lights up! He is reaching out very well and very close to rolling over. He is not quite sitting up yet but we practice a little bit every day.
At his 4 month check up he weighed in at 12lbs 10oz and was 24 inches long. Savannah was little heavier and shorter at 14lbs 1 oz and 23 inches long.
Savannah loves being a big sister. She helps out with Thomas every chance she can get. I cannot wait until they can play together!
Our church family has been awesome! Centerpoint is growing and relationships are being restored every day! We recently became part of a Connect Group. As they say, "Centerpoint is not a church with small groups but a church of small groups" We are not going to have traditional sunday school classes but connect groups. Basically a small group of people, 10-12 people, that meet once a week in someone's house to fellowship and discuss the weeks sermon. The cool thing is, all of the connect groups at Centerpoint discuss the sermon for the week so that the WHOLE church can dive deeper into God's word and be on the same page. We love Centerpoint and are thrilled to be a part of such a great church family.
I believe 2011 is going to be a very promising year. God is moving and we are following!
God Bless and enjoy this rainy day!
Emily
Saturday, December 18, 2010
Merry Christmas!
Christmas is one week away...WOW! This year more than ever it seems to have flown by! We have only done about half of our Christmas shopping, yep, we aren't done and will be out in the craziness of all the other last minute shoppers this year. Yay! (insert sarcasm here)
This year for the first time since we have been married, we didn't do Christmas cards. We really wanted to do a 2 year photo session for Savannah and a 3 month photo session for Thomas. The idea was for it be "Christmas-y" so we would go somewhere and take the photos ourselves to save a little money. Whatever good photos we could get, would then go on a Christmas card, well..........that just didn't happen. We were late in getting up Christmas decorations and as great as a photographer Aric is, we just haven't been able to set aside the time to do this. If we aren't busy then we have been sick, and if we weren't sick then we have been busy! For all of our faithful blog readers out there: We hope y'all have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Love,
Aric, Emily, Savannah and Thomas Lobenstein
This year for the first time since we have been married, we didn't do Christmas cards. We really wanted to do a 2 year photo session for Savannah and a 3 month photo session for Thomas. The idea was for it be "Christmas-y" so we would go somewhere and take the photos ourselves to save a little money. Whatever good photos we could get, would then go on a Christmas card, well..........that just didn't happen. We were late in getting up Christmas decorations and as great as a photographer Aric is, we just haven't been able to set aside the time to do this. If we aren't busy then we have been sick, and if we weren't sick then we have been busy! For all of our faithful blog readers out there: We hope y'all have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!
Love,
Aric, Emily, Savannah and Thomas Lobenstein
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